Lately, I have been thinking a lot about what it means to grow and still stay true to yourself. When I first started Authentically Aileen, I created it as a space to share my story as a first-generation student, a dreamer, and someone figuring out life one chapter at a time. Back then, it felt simple. I wrote from a place of discovery, trying to understand who I was becoming. Over time, as school, work, and new responsibilities filled my life, I started realizing that authenticity is not a one-time thing. It is something you keep returning to, again and again.

As I get closer to finishing my MBA, I feel myself stepping into a new version of me. The same person, but a little wiser, a little softer, and a little more grounded. I am learning that personal branding is not about being perfect or having everything figured out. It is about staying rooted in your values, even when life feels messy or uncertain. The world changes, your goals change, and so do you. The beauty of it all is that you get to redefine what “authentic” means in every stage of your life.

I used to think I had to have one version of my brand forever, but now I see it differently. Authentically Aileen has grown with me. It has seen my college years, my first leadership roles, my time as a graduate assistant, and now, this in-between moment before stepping into a new career. Through every change, what stays constant is the heart behind it. My desire to connect, to inspire, and to be real. Authenticity is not about staying the same. It is about showing up honestly, even when you are changing.

If there is one thing this season has taught me, it is that growth does not mean losing who you are. It means expanding into more of who you were always meant to be. Becoming “authentically you” is not something you do once; it is something you keep doing, again and again.

Take a moment to reflect on how you have changed in the past year. What parts of you have stayed the same, and what new parts are emerging? Share your thoughts or tag someone who has inspired your own growth.


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12 responses to “Becoming Authentically You (Again)”

  1. Ariel Stapley Avatar

    Love this post! Constantly returning to your authenticity… I never considered that! The MBA program has definitely changed me by refining my study habits. I also had to relearn how to stay positive and confident in the face of difficulty and frustration.

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    1. Aileen Cruz Avatar

      Thank you so much, Ariel. I’m really glad this resonated with you. Returning to your authenticity is something the MBA program pushed me to think about, so I love hearing how it has shaped you too. Refining study habits and staying positive through challenges is such a real part of this journey. I appreciate you sharing your experience, and I’m glad we’re both growing through it.

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  2. Alexandra Rush Avatar

    This is such a great reflection, Aileen! I really connected with what you said about growth being an ongoing process. It’s wild how much can change in just a few years: goals, priorities, and how we define success. I’ve been learning that too, especially as graduation gets closer. Loved reading this!

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    1. Aileen Cruz Avatar

      Thank you so much for this. I am really glad that part resonated with you because it is something I have been reminding myself of a lot lately. Starting over can feel unfamiliar, but it never means starting from zero. It means carrying everything we have learned into something new. I appreciate you sharing where you are in your journey, and I am glad this brought you a bit of grounding. 💛

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  4. Rachel Goodfellow Avatar

    Amazing post, Aileen! I love your story and your advice. I’ll be applying it as I graduate with my MBA too! 🙂

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    1. Aileen Cruz Avatar

      So glad to have met you in the program! Glad my post is helpful for this transition for you!

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  5. Rachel Goodfellow Avatar

    Beautifully written, Aileen! You really put into perspective how growth is something we will experience our entire lives, and just how much one can change when they put their mind to it. Well done! 🙂

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    1. Aileen Cruz Avatar

      Thank you so much, Rachel. Your words mean a lot. I’m glad the message about lifelong growth came through because it’s something I’ve been reflecting on a lot lately. It’s amazing how much we can change when we’re intentional about it. I really appreciate you taking the time to read and share this. 😊

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  6. Jon Avatar

    Hi Aileen! It’s very easy to get wrapped up and lose your self and who you really are. I really liked your insights on how we re-inventing our selves and that it’s normal.

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    1. Aileen Cruz Avatar

      It’s definitely something I’m still learning, too. I appreciate you taking the time to comment. 💛

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