If there is one thing my time with CBESS and UNR has taught me, it is that community is not built overnight; it is built one conversation at a time. Every event, meeting, or simple hallway chat carries the potential to create connection. Working alongside mentors and peers has shown me how powerful it can be when people truly listen to one another. Those moments of understanding, encouragement, and collaboration are what turn individuals into a community.
I used to think leadership was about speaking up. Now I realize it is just as much about listening. Some of the most impactful moments in my role have come from quiet conversations: when a student shared a personal challenge, or when a parent expressed gratitude for the resources we provided through CBESS. These exchanges remind me that every voice matters and every interaction can spark change.
Community work has also taught me to value consistency over perfection. Showing up whether to organize an event, check in on a teammate, or celebrate a small win builds trust. It is easy to underestimate how far a kind word or a genuine “How are you?” can go. I once read a LinkedIn article on mentorship that said, “Leadership is influence, and influence begins with care.” I have found that to be true in every space I have entered.
As I continue to grow personally and professionally, I want to carry that same energy into everything I do: to lead with empathy, uplift others, and build bridges wherever I go. When we make space for others, we all rise together.
Reach out to someone in your circle today. Send a text, ask how they are doing, or invite them for coffee. Connection starts with you.

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